Monday, September 11, 2023

Q&A with Angie Azur




Q&A with Angie Azur

Firekeeper & Death Doula







What does a death doula do?


A death doula, also known as an end-of-life doula or death midwife, is a non-medical professional who provides emotional, practical, and spiritual support to individuals who are dying and their families. Their role is to assist people in their final stages of life with comfort, dignity, and peace.



Some of the tasks a death doula may undertake include:


  • Providing emotional support to the dying person and their family members.
  • Offering guidance on end-of-life planning, including advance directives and funeral arrangements.
  • Educating the family on the dying process and what to expect.
  • Helping the family create a calm and peaceful environment for the dying person.
  • Providing physical care, such as bathing, feeding, and administering medication (with proper training and certification).
  • Facilitating conversations between the dying person and their loved ones.
  • Supporting the family through the grief process after the person has died.

Death doulas work in a variety of settings, including hospitals, hospices, and private homes. They can be a valuable resource for families during this difficult time, helping them navigate the complexities of the dying process and find meaning in their experience.



What is the difference between a death doula and a hospice worker?


Hospice workers are trained medical professionals who provide palliative care to people who are dying. Death doulas, on the other hand, provide non-medical support to both the dying person and their family members. While there may be some overlap in their roles, death doulas focus more on emotional, practical, and spiritual support rather than medical care.



Do death doulas replace the role of family members during the dying process?


No, death doulas do not replace the role of family members during the dying process. Instead, they work alongside family members to provide support and guidance. Death doulas can help facilitate conversations between the dying person and their loved ones and provide emotional support to the family.



How do I find a death doula?


You can search for a death doula through various online directories or ask for referrals from hospices, hospitals, or other end-of-life care providers. Researching and interviewing potential death doulas is important to ensure they are a good fit for your needs and values. 


Here is a link to help you with your search: Death Doulas by State



What kind of training do death doulas receive?


The training for death doulas can vary but typically includes coursework on end-of-life care, grief and loss, communication skills, and advance directives. Some death doulas may also have training in hospice care, nursing, social work, or counseling.



Angie is a Ph.D. researcher in Ancient Wisdom, and with a degree in Psychology, she cares deeply for people in their time of need. With additional training in areas such as End-of-Life Care, PTSD, Sound Healing, Meditation for Relaxation, and Art for Healing, she brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to her work. 



Do death doulas only work with people who are terminally ill?


No, death doulas can work with anyone facing the end of their life, regardless of their diagnosis. They can also work with family members who are grieving the loss of a loved one.


Death doulas may be called early in the dying process, maybe at the start of a terminal diagnosis. When this happens, the family and the person transitioning from life to death can create a more sound and beautiful end-of-life experience. 



What makes Angie a compassionate Death Doula?


Angie Azur is a highly knowledgeable and empathetic Ph.D. researcher in Ancient Wisdom with a degree in Psychology. With deep care for people in their time of need, Angie is dedicated to guiding individuals and couples through transformative experiences. She is highly trained in areas such as End-of-Life Care, PTSD, Sound Healing, Meditation for Relaxation, and Art for Healing, bringing a wealth of knowledge and expertise to her work. Angie's focus is on space-holding, heart-opening, and expanding inner and outer human connections throughout life, including during the transformative periods of birth and active dying.


Her signature style of "heart-opening" focuses on creating a sacred space where clients can journey into transformative experiences—navigating life's milestones, discovering one's life purpose, or finding solace and understanding in active dying. Angie believes in the sacredness of all life transitions, celebrating not just birth but also embracing the profound journey of dying as a natural part of the human experience.


In addition to her individual coaching and healing sessions, Angie is an active community builder. She is a proud member of the Center for Conscious Living and Dying and a graduate of The Hoffman Process and The Priestess Mystery School. Known in some circles as "The Bringer of Tears," Angie’s unique blend of academic expertise, intuitive wisdom, and empathetic guidance makes her a sought-after facilitator for those seeking meaningful connections and transformative growth.


What role do firekeepers play in rituals for the actively dying, and how do their responsibilities differ from other participants?

Firekeepers play a crucial role in rituals for the actively dying by maintaining a sacred and comforting atmosphere around the person nearing the end of life. Their responsibilities often differ from other participants in that they focus on tending to the ceremonial fire, offering prayers, and providing emotional support to the dying individual as well as those family members and death doulas in attendance. 


Can you describe some of the traditional rituals or practices that firekeepers typically perform during the active dying process?

Traditional rituals can vary widely depending on cultural and religious traditions. Some common practices include keeping a sacred fire burning as a symbol of life and transformation, chanting or reciting prayers to guide the soul, and creating a soothing environment through the use of incense, music, or meditation. Also, taking care of the death doulas who are with the actively dying - this might mean listening deeply to what is coming up for them, dabbing sacred oils on chakras, light loving touch, and hugs go a long way to creating a healthy space for all - the living, healing, and dying. 


How do firekeepers help create a peaceful and sacred environment for the person who is actively dying, and what tools or techniques do they use to achieve this?

Firekeepers help create a peaceful and sacred environment by maintaining the ceremonial fire, which is seen as a source of spiritual energy and a connection to the divine. They may use tools such as smudging with sage or other herbs to purify the space, offer comforting words and reassurance to the dying person, and engage in calming rituals to ensure a serene transition.


Are there specific cultural or religious beliefs associated with firekeepers and their involvement in rituals for the actively dying? How do these beliefs influence their actions and role?

The beliefs associated with firekeepers and their role in rituals for the actively dying can vary widely based on cultural and religious traditions. In some Native American cultures, firekeepers are seen as mediators between the physical and spiritual realms, responsible for guiding the soul safely to the afterlife. In other traditions, firekeepers may represent the element of fire as a symbol of purification and transformation. Fire was considered a sacred element and a powerful symbol in Celtic and Druidic belief systems. It represented transformation, purification, and the gateway between the physical and spiritual worlds. 


How does the training and selection process for firekeepers differ from that of other participants in end-of-life rituals, and what qualities are considered important for someone to become a firekeeper in these contexts?

The training and selection process for firekeepers depends on the specific cultural or religious tradition. Typically, individuals chosen for this role are deeply knowledgeable about their tradition's customs, and rituals. They may undergo extensive training, which includes learning sacred chants, fire-tending techniques, and the spiritual significance of their actions. Qualities such as compassion, empathy, and a strong connection to their faith are often considered important for someone to become a firekeeper in these contexts.

Aspiring Druids would have been trained in the performance of rituals, including those involving fire. This would have included the proper way to light and tend a sacred fire, the recitation of prayers or incantations associated with fire, and the symbolism of fire in Celtic spirituality. I speak about the Druids, as I am studying firekeeping rituals they still abide today. 

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